Being with someone who is still hung up on his ex can be a pain in the… Well, it can be rather unpleasant. Being compared to his previous girlfriend can not only drive you crazy but ruin your self-esteem and make you feel like you are not good enough. Therefore, if you have just met a guy on BBW personals but you are worried that he isn’t over his ex, read these signs and see whether your spider sense is tingling for a good reason.
He always finds a reason to mention her
It was perhaps when you suggested you should go to the beach that summer, and he mentioned that he and his ex always went to the mountains, or maybe when you said you liked your coffee plain but he then told you how his ex claimed that a touch of cinnamon always made it better. Anyways, if your every decision ends up with him comparing you to his ex that is a clear sign that you should pack your bags and get the hell out of there.
He gets riled up over little things
Even the slightest mistake can make him angry and it seems like you are always doing something wrong. Well, if he is still hung up on his ex you can try all you want but you will always mess things up simply because you are not her.
You have a routine and you have no idea where it came from
Even though you have met only several weeks ago over a BBW online dating site, you already have a routine that is set in stone. It is pizza and Netflix night on Wednesdays; you go out to his favorite bar on Fridays and then you go hiking or do some other outdoor activity on Sundays. All in all, it is quite possible that he just continued his past relationship with you and that this whole pattern is sketched by him and his ex. Finally, if you have no saying when it comes to deciding what the two of you will do, it is time to move on.
He seems distracted during special moments
You know, the moments such as celebrating his birthday or promotion. If he feels distant, it is possible that he is imagining how different would it be if he spent those moments with his ex. Keep in mind that this is extremely disrespectful and rude, and if he is unable to cherish these special moments with you, your relationship doesn’t have a bright future.