Dating a man who is older than you can be quite thrilling. You can see the world through his eyes and learn from his experience. And who sad chivalry is dead? With an older guy you will feel like a lady, since he was raised old school.
Dating senior singles has its benefits. However, like any dating, it comes with some rules. Older guy might not be the one you see yourself marrying and having kids with, but it’ll sure be an adventure that you’ll never forget. If you want to dip your toe in mature water, here are some tips for you.
Learn from his experience
He is older and wiser than you. Everything you are dealing with is old news for him. Don’t hesitate to ask him for an advice. He can help you avoid many mistakes in your life. With age comes experience. If you have an adventurous spirit and you’re curious about the world, let him take you on a trip. The older man doesn’t just know the streets of your city; he knows the back alleys as well.
Don’t remind him of his age
Don’t tell him how you dig his grey chest hair or ask him if he had his prostate checked. He knows how old he is, you don’t need to constantly remind him. Also, never whine about your age. If you are saying that you are old, what does that make him? Don’t use childhood/pop culture references that he will never get.
Let him be the man
It is nice to feel like a lady from time to time. Yes, we all claim that we are independent women who don’t need anybodies help, but it is nice to feel pampered and protected now and then. It feels good to have a man who knows how to treat a lady instead of spending the whole day playing video games.
No age based nicknames
When you are dating mature singles, you should avoid giving a nickname based on age. Silver Fox is definitely a big no-no.
Feel free to let it go
Older men grew up in a different generation when the bush was sexy, so goodbye shaving and waxing. Finally your crotch can take a break. You’ll feel more like a natural woman which will be liberating and free. He appreciates your girl parts just the way they are.
Maybe he wants to date you simply because you’re young, fresh meat, and maybe he is serious about you two. Take your time and see what his angle is.
When you are dating older men don’t pretend to be more or less mature than you really are. You want him to like you for you, right?
Relationship like any other
There’s already enough pressure when it comes to dating, why add more stress and think about the age thing if you really like this man? Just relax and enjoy your time together.